Gender — All Articles — My Kid is Gay

Austen Hartke, author of Transforming: The Bible & the Lives of Transgender Christians, writes about the faith-based questions that Christian parents might have when their child comes out as transgender.

Religion, GenderKristin RussoAugust 23, 2019

Supporting Your Non-Binary Students with Pronoun Changes

My student started using they/them pronouns, but not all teachers are supportive. What do I do?

Coming Out, Dear MKIG, For Teachers, Non-Binary, Pronouns, Gender, Students + TeachersGrace MangerOctober 10, 2018#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Genderqueer, Pronouns, nonbinary, teachers

How Do I Talk About Periods with My Non-Binary Kid?

Menstruation is a very gendered topic in our society, but it doesn't have to be! Here's how to talk about periods without invalidating your non-binary kid's identity.

Dear MKIG, Non-Binary, GenderGrace MangerSeptember 5, 2018#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Genderqueer, nonbinary

Austen Hartke's New Book Shines an Important Light on Trans Christians and Their Stories

Austen Hartke's new book shows the world that transgender Christians have always existed, and is an incredible resource to help Christian parents, leaders, and community members understand how trans folks experience Christianity.

Gender, Religion, TransgenderGrace MangerAugust 14, 2018#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Christianity, Religion, trans*, transgender

How Do I Talk to My Christian Parents About My Kid’s Gender Exploration?

My kid is exploring their gender and asked me to tell my super Christian parents about it. Should I wait until my kid has settled on an identity that fits them?

Young Children, Dear MKIG, Expression, Telling Others, Religion, GenderGrace MangerJuly 26, 2018#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Extended family, Genderqueer, Questioning, nonbinary, Religion

What Is Gender Therapy, and How Do I Find a Good Therapist for My Kid?

Gender therapy can be really helpful for many trans and non-binary people. Here's what you need to know as a parent!

Young Children, Transitioning, GenderGrace MangerJuly 5, 2018#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, transgender

Defining: Transition

What are the different aspects of transitioning, and why might someone start a transition?

Defining Series, Gender, Transgender, TransitioningGrace MangerJune 6, 2018#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Defining, trans*, transgender

5 LGBTQ Podcasts to Start Listening To

Podcasts can be incredible resources to learn new things and, in the case of these five podcasts, become a better ally to the LGBTQ community.

Gender, Books + TV, Lists, Non-Binary, TransgenderGrace MangerMay 16, 2018#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Coming Out, Genderqueer, nonbinary, trans*, transgender

What's Wrong with Gender Reveal Parties?

My daughter and her wife are having a baby, and I don't understand what their sexuality has to do with not wanting to have a gender reveal party!

Gender, Dear MKIG, PartnersGrace MangerMay 8, 2018#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice

Defining: Neopronoun

What are neopronouns, where do they come from, and how can we use them when referring to people?

Defining Series, Gender, Pronouns, TerminologyGrace MangerMay 2, 2018#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Defining, Pronouns, trans*, transgender

They/Them Pronouns Have Come Between My Child and Me

How am I supposed to practice they/them pronouns if my kid has become distant from me?

Dear MKIG, Non-Binary, Pronouns, GenderGrace MangerApril 12, 2018#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Genderqueer, Pronouns, nonbinary

Here’s How to Explain Gender Identity and Expression to Kids

How can I teach my kids that a person's appearance does not tell you anything about their gender or pronouns?

Gender, Young Children, Dear MKIG, Expression, Gender, Gender, Pronouns, Talking to Young Kids, TerminologyGrace MangerMarch 15, 2018#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Gender expression, Pronouns

Aren't Some Things Inherently Gendered?

My kid is non-binary, but what do we do about things that are inherently gendered, like bathrooms and Mr. and Miss?

Dear MKIG, Non-Binary, Terminology, GenderGrace MangerMarch 6, 2018#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Bathrooms, Genderqueer, nonbinary

6 Things to Do When Your Child Comes Out as Transgender

After your child comes out as trans, do these 6 things first.

Gender, ListsGrace MangerFebruary 27, 2018#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Coming Out, Gender expression, Pronouns, trans*, transgender

Coming Out as Transgender And Gay

When your kid comes out as transgender AND gay, approach the topic with an open mind, and leave behind your ideas about what is “right” or “wrong” when it comes to who we are and who we love based on gender.

Coming Out, Dear MKIG, Terminology, Transgender, GenderGrace MangerFebruary 15, 2018#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Changing names, Coming Out, Gender expression, Phase, Pronouns, trans*, transgender

My Trans Kid's Grandma Is Transphobic

Here’s some hard talking advice. It’s not fun. It’s not pretty.

Gender, Young Children, Dear MKIG, Gender, Gender, TransgenderGrace MangerFebruary 8, 2018#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Extended family, trans*, transgender

Should I Indulge My Young, Gender Nonconforming Son’s Interest in Middle Eastern Dance?

My gender nonconforming son has found a new hobby, but will people think it's inappropriate for a 9-year-old?

Gender, Young Children, Dear MKIG, Expression, Gender, Gender, Non-BinaryGrace MangerFebruary 1, 2018#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Genderqueer, nonbinary

How to Handle Parental Censorship of LGBTQ Books

Our school's librarian included the book "George" in the student book club and was met with a lot of pushback from parents saying it's inappropriate. What can I do as a fellow teacher?

Dear MKIG, Media, Talking to Young Kids, Gender, Students + TeachersGrace MangerJanuary 18, 2018#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, teachers, trans*, transgender

7 Ways To Support Someone Who’s Changing Their Name & Pronouns

Step one: Use the new, correct name and pronouns all the time—even when they’re not there to hear you, even when you’re just thinking about them in your head.

Gender, Lists, Pronouns, TransitioningGrace MangerJanuary 16, 2018#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Changing names, Coming Out, Genderqueer, Pronouns, nonbinary, trans*, transgender

We Need More Books Like "Made by Raffi"

This book shows kids and adults alike that there's nothing strange about a boy who likes to knit!

Young Children, Books, Books + TV, Expression, Media, GenderGrace MangerDecember 18, 2017#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Book review